Identity first.
Everything else follows.
Who you are and what has happened to you are not the same thing.
Your history provides information. It does not make the decision about who you will be.
The person you have been has had enough Time!!
What you have already lived gives you information you can use. The question is whether you are paying attention to it.
ITAC
Pronounced Eye-Tack.
Identity → Thoughts → Actions → Consequences
ITAC gives you a way to examine the relationship between Identity, Thoughts, Actions, and Consequences.
It is useful looking back at what already happened, and more useful while the next choice is still in front of you.
Accepted Standards
Some standards were taught to you directly. Others you picked up by watching, listening, and living through things, without a moment you would remember as a decision.
Learning a standard is not the same as intentionally choosing one.
The point is not to reject everything you learned. It is to examine what you are still accepting, and to decide what stays.
2iamLee — Choosing the Identity That Your Old Life Will Never Have Access To‼️
Accepted Standards, ITAC, and what it takes to keep examining the identity you chose, worked through in full.
This book cannot change your life. But if you’re honest with yourself and apply these principles, it will help you change it.
Reader Responses
These responses came from people who read the book and shared what stayed with them.
People may still see the old you, but when you change, your actions show that change.
The part about maintenance hit us the hardest because maintenance matters in every part of daily life.
What is 2iamLee?
2iamLee is a framework for examining who you understand yourself to be, the standards attached to that understanding, and how both show up in what you actually do.
It does not begin with what you should do differently. It begins one question earlier.
Who are you?